I love Mariah Carey. Mariah Carey's music saved little ghetto children's lives. Songs like 'Vision of Love' gave us hope and we would sing those songs and try to hit every note like Mariah -- which we can't. I don't think she knows what a big part she plays in Mary J. Blige's life. And then to meet her:.she's such a beautiful person that you can't do anything but defend her when [the media] starts acting stupid on her. She doesn't deserve that.