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What does it mean?
Self identity is formed through encountering another as a subject.
In plain terms
You become a true person by relating to others deeply.
What can you take from it?
Build your identity through genuine relationships.

Where it applies

  • personal growth
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • active listening

Questions to consider

  • Who helps you become yourself?
  • How do you see others?

Another view

It overlooks aspects of self formed in solitude.

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