The basic word I-Thou can be spoken only with one's whole being. The concentration and fusion into a whole being can never be accomplished by me, can never be accomplished without me. I require a Thou to become; becoming I, I say Thou.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Identity forms through relationship; we become ourselves only by fully engaging with another.
- In plain terms
- You need another person to become who you are.
- What can you take from it?
- Build identity through genuine relationships.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Who helps you become yourself?
- How do you say Thou?
Another view
It may understate the role of individual autonomy in self-development.
More from Martin Buber
The Thou encounters me by grace- it cannot be found by seeking. But that I speak the basic word to it is a deed of my whole being, is my essential deed.
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Permalink to quote #3 The I of the basic word I-Thou is different from that of the basic word I-It.
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