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What does it mean?
The speaker cites a Chaucer line where a character declares independence and comfort in her own self.
In plain terms
I am my own person and comfortable with that.
What can you take from it?
Self possession is a source of comfort.

Where it applies

  • claiming independence
  • reflecting on status

Putting it to work

  • affirm personal boundaries

Questions to consider

  • What does being your own person mean to you?
  • When did you feel most comfortable in your own skin?

Another view

Independence is not always easy to achieve socially.

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