I suppose everyone continues to be interested in the quest for the self, but what you feel when you're older, I think, is that - how to express this - you really must make the self. It's absolutely useless to look for it, you won't find it, but it's possible in some sense to make it.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The self is not found but built through effort as we age.
- In plain terms
- You have to make yourself, you cannot find yourself.
- What can you take from it?
- Build your identity through action.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you build yourself?
Another view
Some aspects of self are innate.
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