I'm afraid I'm not sufficiently inhibited about the things that other women are inhibited about for me. They feel that you've given away trade secrets.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker feels less inhibited than others and suspects they are seen as revealing secrets.
- In plain terms
- I am not shy about things other women hide, which makes them suspicious.
- What can you take from it?
- Openness can be mistaken for indiscretion.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What behaviors do you feel you must hide?
- Why does openness feel like betrayal to others?
Another view
It assumes women generally share similar inhibitions.
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