You mustn't force sex to do the work of love or love to do the work of sex.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Sex and love serve different purposes and should not be used to replace each other.
- In plain terms
- Do not expect physical intimacy to fulfill emotional needs or vice versa.
- What can you take from it?
- Keep physical and emotional intimacy distinct.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you distinguish love from sex in your life?
- What happens when one replaces the other?
Another view
Human relationships often blend these aspects naturally.
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