To be a child is something one learns, as one learns the names of rivers or the kings of France. Childhood, for a child, is a sort of falseness, woodenness, stoniness, a lesson recited. Many children are aware of this - that is, aware of being children as a special, prosy condition: 'We can't do that! We're children!' Playing children is a long boring game with occasional exciting moments.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Childhood is something children learn to perform rather than a natural state.
- In plain terms
- Kids realize acting like children is a boring and fake game.
- What can you take from it?
- Children become aware of the constraints of being young.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When did you feel like you were playing a role?
- How do adults enforce childhood roles?
Another view
It overgeneralizes how all children experience growing up.
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