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What does it mean?
Self-pity feels comfortable at first but becomes painful when it becomes fixed.
In plain terms
Self-pity feels cozy at first but gets hard later.
What can you take from it?
Don't let self-pity linger too long.

Where it applies

  • personal struggle
  • therapy
  • self-reflection

Putting it to work

  • shift focus
  • seek help
  • act

Questions to consider

  • When do you use self-pity as a shield?

Another view

Sometimes comfort in pain is necessary for healing.

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