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What does it mean?
Not being loved is painful, but the inability to love is worse.
In plain terms
It hurts to be unloved, but it is worse if you cannot love others.
What can you take from it?
Loving is more important than being loved.

Where it applies

  • loneliness
  • relationship struggles
  • emotional growth

Putting it to work

  • cultivating the ability to love
  • overcoming emotional numbness

Questions to consider

  • Which is harder: to love or to be loved?
  • How do you heal from being unable to love?

Another view

It simplifies the complex dynamics of giving and receiving love.

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