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'Your novel has been read,' Woland began, turning to the master, 'and the only thing said about it was that, unfortunately, it is not finished. So, then, I wanted to show you your hero. For about two thousand years he has been sitting on this platform and sleeping, but when the full moon comes, as you see, he is tormented by insomnia. It torments not only him, but also his faithful guardian, the dog. If it is true that cowardice is the most grievous vice, then the dog at least is not guilty of it. Storms were the only thing the brave dog feared. Well, he who loves must share the lot of the one he loves.'

Mikhail Bulgakov#1

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Love requires shared suffering; courage matters most when fear is present.
In plain terms
If you love someone, you must accept their struggles too.
What can you take from it?
Embrace shared suffering as part of love.

Where it applies

  • long-term relationships
  • caregiving

Putting it to work

  • staying present during hard times
  • accepting imperfection in others

Questions to consider

  • What does it mean to love someone fully?
  • Is courage more valuable when fear is real?

Another view

Shared suffering can become unhealthy if it fuels mutual pain.

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