He was wounded. I suppose some sharp thing in me wanted to sting him, for making me need him now. After he'd once cut me to the edge of what a soul will bear. But that was senseless.... I looked at this grown-up Loyd and tried to make sense of him, seeing clearly that he was too sweet to survive around me. I would go to my grave expecting the weapon in the empty hand.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker acknowledges past hurt from Loyd but realizes he is too gentle to survive her presence, leaving her with unspoken regret.
- In plain terms
- I realize he was too good for me and I couldn't let him stay.
- What can you take from it?
- Recognizing incompatibility can come too late.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you handle past hurts?
- Did you push away someone who cared?
Another view
This perspective may romanticize the pain of separation.
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