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What does it mean?
Compassion alone does not create true love.
In plain terms
Feeling sorry for someone is not the same as loving them.
What can you take from it?
Love needs more than pity.

Where it applies

  • dating
  • caring for others
  • self-reflection

Putting it to work

  • distinguish pity from love
  • seek genuine connection

Questions to consider

  • When did you confuse pity with love?
  • What makes love genuine?

Another view

Compassion can sometimes be part of love.

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