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What does it mean?
Pain follows its own irrational logic, independent of rational explanation.
In plain terms
Pain has reasons that don’t make sense.
What can you take from it?
Don’t expect logic to soothe pain.

Where it applies

  • dealing with grief
  • recovering from injury

Putting it to work

  • allow space for feeling
  • avoid over‑analyzing

Questions to consider

  • When have you felt pain that defied reason?
  • Can rational thought ever ease pain?

Another view

May dismiss the benefit of understanding underlying causes.

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