There is no greater misfortune for a man than to be governed by his wife: in such case he is neither himself nor his wife, he is a perfect nonentity.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Marriage can make a man lose his identity.
- In plain terms
- Being ruled by a wife makes you nothing.
- What can you take from it?
- Maintain independence in relationships.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Does marriage reduce freedom?
- What is healthy interdependence?
Another view
The view is sexist and outdated.
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