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What does it mean?
Marriage can make a man lose his identity.
In plain terms
Being ruled by a wife makes you nothing.
What can you take from it?
Maintain independence in relationships.

Where it applies

  • marital conflicts
  • gender roles

Putting it to work

  • maintain personal agency
  • avoid total dependence

Questions to consider

  • Does marriage reduce freedom?
  • What is healthy interdependence?

Another view

The view is sexist and outdated.

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