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What does it mean?
Being hopeful and certain was a mistake that led to negative consequences for the speaker.
In plain terms
Having hope and certainty was the worst thing I could do.
What can you take from it?
Hope can sometimes lead to disappointment.

Where it applies

  • disappointment
  • cynicism
  • reflection

Putting it to work

  • managing expectations
  • practicing caution
  • reviewing past hopes

Questions to consider

  • Was hope ever a risk for you?
  • Is doubt safer than hope?

Another view

It dismisses hope as a negative trait rather than a complex one.

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