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What does it mean?
Hawthorne suggests nervous people talk excessively as a way to release tension.
In plain terms
Talkative people release stress by talking a lot.
What can you take from it?
Talking can be an emotional release.

Where it applies

  • managing anxiety
  • observing personality

Putting it to work

  • identifying coping mechanisms

Questions to consider

  • What does your talkiness signal?
  • Is it always about nervousness?

Another view

It simplifies complex reasons why people might talk a lot.

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