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What does it mean?
Hiding your true self confuses you about who you are.
In plain terms
Wearing masks makes you lose yourself.
What can you take from it?
Be authentic to avoid self-confusion.

Where it applies

  • career
  • relationships
  • public life

Putting it to work

  • live openly
  • align public and private

Questions to consider

  • Who do you pretend to be?
  • What happens if you show your true face?

Another view

Safety sometimes requires discretion.

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