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What does it mean?
Blaming external objects for personal flaws is futile.
In plain terms
Don't blame the mirror if your face is crooked.
What can you take from it?
Take responsibility for your own flaws.

Where it applies

  • criticism
  • self-assessment

Putting it to work

  • reflect on faults
  • accept criticism

Questions to consider

  • When do we blame others?
  • How do you own mistakes?

Another view

It ignores systemic issues affecting individuals.

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