This is the first lesson to learn: be determined not to curse anything outside, not to lay the blame upon anyone outside, but stand up, lay the blame on yourself. You will find that is always true. Get hold of yourself.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Personal responsibility is the key lesson; blaming others hinders growth.
- In plain terms
- Stop blaming others and take responsibility for yourself.
- What can you take from it?
- Take responsibility instead of blaming others.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Where are you blaming others instead of yourself?
Another view
It may overlook valid external circumstances affecting the individual.
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