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What does it mean?
Understanding a person's motives reveals their character more than their actions against you.
In plain terms
Look at why people chose their paths to know who they really are.
What can you take from it?
Judgment comes from understanding motives, not just actions.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • understanding enemies
  • self-reflection

Putting it to work

  • ask why before judging
  • study life purposes

Questions to consider

  • What drives people to harm others?
  • How do you judge character?

Another view

Sometimes motives remain hidden or unknowable.

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