I never knew I love father till he lay there at the brink of death. Perhaps I never did love him, until he was nearly gone. It seemed a very powerful thought, until it occurred to him that justice probably put it into his mind
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Love for a parent often becomes apparent only when facing their potential loss. The speaker questions if this realization is genuine love or a forced justification.
- In plain terms
- You might not realize how much you love your father until he is dying.
- What can you take from it?
- Loss often reveals hidden emotions we ignored while things were normal.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When did you last tell someone you love them?
- Is regret a valid reason to claim love?
Another view
It may be easier to love someone when they are already gone than when they are present.
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