For the first time Lared did not fear her and did not hate her, for the first time he understood what lay behind her choice, and though he thought that it was wrong, he realized it was not justice's fault
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Understanding someone's choices can remove fear and hate even if the choice seems wrong. Justice is not always the cause of perceived unfairness.
- In plain terms
- Understanding why someone did something can stop you from hating them even if you still think it is wrong.
- What can you take from it?
- Understanding motives reduces hatred even without agreeing.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What would change your mind about someone?
- Can you understand without agreeing?
Another view
Understanding does not always justify bad actions.
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