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What does it mean?
Hypocrites are accused of denying others pain while cherishing their own suffering. There is a question of who observes these contradictions.
In plain terms
You take away other people's pain but keep your own suffering for yourself.
What can you take from it?
Beware of those who deny your pain but keep their own.

Where it applies

  • religious debates
  • moral debates
  • political speeches

Putting it to work

  • identify hypocritical claims
  • demand consistency

Questions to consider

  • Who decides what pain is valid?
  • Are you guilty of this hypocrisy?

Another view

Some pain is necessary for growth and cannot be stolen.

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