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What does it mean?
Civilization is defined by the ability to delay gratification and wait for what you want.
In plain terms
Being civilized means you can wait to get what you want.
What can you take from it?
The ability to wait for rewards is a sign of a civilized society.

Where it applies

  • social norms
  • conflict resolution
  • policy making

Putting it to work

  • practice waiting
  • value long term goals
  • respect social order

Questions to consider

  • Is waiting the mark of civilization?
  • When should you not wait?

Another view

Waiting can sometimes enable oppression or injustice in unjust systems.

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