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What does it mean?
Two people interpret the same action differently, making the event distinct for each.
In plain terms
One act means different things to different people.
What can you take from it?
Understand that actions have multiple meanings.

Where it applies

  • conflicts
  • misunderstandings
  • relationships

Putting it to work

  • ask intent
  • clarify meanings
  • listen actively

Questions to consider

  • How do you know intent?
  • Is meaning subjective?

Another view

Sometimes actions have clear intent.

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