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What does it mean?
True connection requires mutual readiness to be known.
In plain terms
You are ready to be seen, but are others ready to see you?
What can you take from it?
Share yourself only when others are prepared to listen.

Where it applies

  • new relationships
  • revelations
  • conflict

Putting it to work

  • opening up
  • building trust
  • setting boundaries

Questions to consider

  • Are you ready to show your true self?
  • Who needs to be ready to know you?

Another view

Being too ready can lead to rejection.

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