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What does it mean?
Love often comes with unintended costs for others.
In plain terms
Loving you means others might suffer because of you.
What can you take from it?
Accept that your existence can hurt those around you.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • war
  • personal relationships

Putting it to work

  • accepting responsibility
  • managing impact
  • self sacrifice

Questions to consider

  • Who has paid a price for your life?
  • What sacrifices do you carry?

Another view

This mindset can lead to unhealthy self blame.

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