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A cypress-bough, and a rose-wreath sweet, A wedding-robe, and a winding-sheet, A bridal bed and a bier. Thine be the kisses, maid, And smiling Love's alarms; And thou, pale youth, be laid In the grave's cold arms. Each in his own charms, Death and Hymen both are here; So up with scythe and torch, And to the old church porch, While all the bells ring clear: And rosy, rosy the bed shall bloom, And earthy, earthy heap up the tomb.

Thomas Lovell Beddoes#1

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Love and death are intertwined in life, marked by marriage and burial rituals.
In plain terms
Marriage and death are both significant life events happening side by side.
What can you take from it?
Celebration and mourning are part of the same life cycle.

Where it applies

  • funerals
  • weddings
  • life reflections

Putting it to work

  • honor life transitions
  • accept mortality
  • celebrate love

Questions to consider

  • How do you view endings?
  • What marks a life well lived?

Another view

The imagery is overly poetic for modern sensibilities.

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