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What does it mean?
Silence from one person can trigger vague anxiety in others, revealing their true selves.
In plain terms
People show their real selves when they are anxious around someone who doesn't speak.
What can you take from it?
Silent presence can expose hidden anxieties in others.

Where it applies

  • conflict situations
  • waiting for news
  • intimidation

Putting it to work

  • notice what silence reveals
  • manage anxiety in quiet spaces

Questions to consider

  • What does silence reveal about people?
  • When do you feel most exposed?

Another view

Not everyone reacts to silence with anxiety.

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