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What does it mean?
Practicality differs from playing the victim.
In plain terms
Being practical is not the same as being a martyr.
What can you take from it?
Distinguish between smart choices and self-pity.

Where it applies

  • decision making
  • interpersonal conflict
  • self-justification

Putting it to work

  • focus on practical outcomes
  • avoid martyr mentality

Questions to consider

  • Are you being practical or dramatic?
  • Is martyrdom hiding fear?

Another view

Sometimes practicality feels like being a fool.

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