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What does it mean?
She refuses to be swayed by anyone else’s will.
In plain terms
She does not bend to others’ desires.
What can you take from it?
Stand firm in your own decisions.

Where it applies

  • peer pressure
  • family expectations

Putting it to work

  • practice assertiveness
  • set clear boundaries

Questions to consider

  • When is flexibility more advantageous than stubbornness?

Another view

May ignore beneficial advice.

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