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What does it mean?
Suicide is framed as a way to end suffering, not a desire to die.
In plain terms
Even those who end life want to escape pain, not life itself.
What can you take from it?
Despair often masks a wish to end agony.

Where it applies

  • mental health crisis
  • grief
  • counseling

Putting it to work

  • offer empathy
  • provide resources

Questions to consider

  • What does pain do to hope?
  • How can we support those in agony?

Another view

Not all suicides stem from unbearable agony.

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