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What does it mean?
The speaker questions when their desire for another person's love began, implying a slow or unnoticed shift in feelings.
In plain terms
I wonder when I first started wanting someone to love me.
What can you take from it?
Desire for love often starts subtly before we realize it.

Where it applies

  • romantic introspection
  • relationship analysis

Putting it to work

  • journaling about feelings
  • understanding attraction timing

Questions to consider

  • When did your feelings change?
  • Do you track when you start caring?

Another view

It assumes the feeling was not obvious to the speaker earlier.

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