Skip to content
quotesby

About this quote

What does it mean?
Being human means experiencing intense emotions that cannot be eliminated, only controlled.
In plain terms
You will always have strong feelings, so you must learn to manage your actions despite them.
What can you take from it?
Accept emotions and learn to control actions.

Where it applies

  • personal struggles
  • emotional overwhelm

Putting it to work

  • acknowledge feelings
  • pause before acting

Questions to consider

  • How do you handle strong feelings?
  • What emotions are hardest to control?

Another view

Constant suppression of emotion can lead to internal stress.

More from Orson Scott Card

  1. That's what civilized people do - they avoid circumstances that enrage them. Or if they can't avoid it, they detach.

    Permalink to quote #245
  2. I've had your tears with mine, and you've had mine with yours. I think that's more intimate than even a kiss. Maybe. But not as fun.

    Permalink to quote #247
  3. You really can't do it can you? Can't what? Can't bow down and kiss your feet? Can't shut up to save your life.

    Permalink to quote #244

Related quotes

  1. The hardness of God is kinder than the softness of men, and His compulsion is our liberation.

    C. S. LewisC. S. Lewis quote #88
  2. Action is the highest perfection and drawing forth of the utmost power, vigor, and activity of man's nature.

    Robert SouthRobert South quote #1
  3. A little rule, a little sway, A sunbeam in a winter's day, Is all the proud and mighty have Between the cradle and the grave.

    John DyerJohn Dyer quote #1