I've had your tears with mine, and you've had mine with yours. I think that's more intimate than even a kiss. Maybe. But not as fun.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Sharing deep sorrow creates a bond that can feel more intimate than physical affection.
- In plain terms
- Crying together connects people more deeply than kissing, even if it is not as enjoyable.
- What can you take from it?
- Shared vulnerability builds deeper intimacy.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When did you feel most connected to someone?
- What makes you feel vulnerable?
Another view
Not everyone values emotional exposure over physical closeness.
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