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What does it mean?
The speakers admit they harm the child they pretend to protect.
In plain terms
We pretend to help but we destroy him as part of our job.
What can you take from it?
Roles can mask harmful intentions.

Where it applies

  • mentoring
  • training
  • leadership

Putting it to work

  • examine motives
  • avoid false promises

Questions to consider

  • Can love coexist with harm?
  • Who pays the price?

Another view

It justifies harm as necessary duty.

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