'I'm not in love with [her] because she's the most beautiful young woman [here] and therefore quite possibly in the entire world. I'm in love with her because we can talk together, because of the way she thinks, the sound of her voice, the way she cocks her head to listen to an idea that she doesn't agree with, the way she rests her hand on mine when she's trying to persuade me.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Love stems from connection and intellectual compatibility rather than physical beauty alone.
- In plain terms
- I love her for how we talk and think together, not just her looks.
- What can you take from it?
- Lasting love values minds and conversation over beauty.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What draws you to people beyond looks?
- How important is conversation in love?
Another view
Physical attraction can be important too.
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