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What does it mean?
Pretending to be someone changes who you become.
In plain terms
Wearing a mask eventually makes you that mask.
What can you take from it?
Actions shape identity over time.

Where it applies

  • acting
  • social roles
  • self-presentation

Putting it to work

  • choose roles carefully
  • align actions with values

Questions to consider

  • Can you remove the mask?
  • Who are you when alone?

Another view

It assumes change is always permanent.

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