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What does it mean?
We adopt fake personas so thoroughly that we lose sight of our true identities.
In plain terms
We act so fake we forget who we really are.
What can you take from it?
Constant masking can lead to loss of self.

Where it applies

  • social media
  • workplace
  • relationships

Putting it to work

  • self-reflection
  • mindfulness
  • boundary setting

Questions to consider

  • Who are you when alone?
  • When do you feel most fake?

Another view

It assumes the mask is always fake rather than a adaptive social tool.

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