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If I had taken away the desire for violence then humanity would not have been humanity. Not that human beings need to be violent in order to be human, but if you ever lose the will to control, the will to destroy, then it must be because you choose to lose it. My role was not to force you to be gentle and kind; it was to keep you alive while you decided for yourselves what kind of people you wanted to be.

Orson Scott Card#329

ChoiceEthicsGrowthHumanityViolencePeace

About this quote

What does it mean?
Violence is part of human choice; forcing gentleness removes agency and growth.
In plain terms
You must choose to be peaceful, or you cannot truly be human.
What can you take from it?
Peace requires personal choice, not external enforcement.

Where it applies

  • moral education
  • conflict resolution
  • self-improvement

Putting it to work

  • encouraging autonomy
  • teaching self-control

Questions to consider

  • Can moral growth happen without the ability to do harm?
  • What defines being human?

Another view

Some people may never choose peace without external constraints.

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