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What does it mean?
She needed reassurance that he loves her as a flawed human, not an ideal.
In plain terms
He married her imperfect self, not the powerful image she tried to project.
What can you take from it?
Acceptance comes from being loved for who you are.

Where it applies

  • romantic relationships
  • self-acceptance

Putting it to work

  • accepting flaws
  • releasing perfectionism

Questions to consider

  • Do you accept others for their imperfections?

Another view

Expecting perfection from others is often unrealistic.

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