The old fear and strangeness remained as an undercurrent, despite all her attempts to reassure herself. Until now, seeing him, she realized she was not afraid of him..... No she was afraid of what he would think of her - an even older and darker fear
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The character realizes her fear is not of the person himself but of his judgment of her.
- In plain terms
- She is scared of what he thinks of her, not of him.
- What can you take from it?
- Fear of judgment often outweighs fear of the other person.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What are you afraid of in relationships?
- Is judgment worse than confrontation?
Another view
This interpretation assumes the text is about interpersonal dynamics rather than literal danger.
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