Love and respect have nothing to do with controlling what other people do
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- True love and respect do not involve controlling others' actions.
- In plain terms
- Love does not mean controlling what people do.
- What can you take from it?
- Respect autonomy to show true love and respect.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Are you controlling?
- What does respect look like?
Another view
People may care enough to try to protect others from harm.
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