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What does it mean?
A spouse may view romantic desire differently due to commitment.
In plain terms
A husband might not desire his wife as a romantic stranger.
What can you take from it?
Marriage changes how people view desire.

Where it applies

  • marriage issues
  • attraction
  • expectations

Putting it to work

  • communicate desires
  • redefine roles

Questions to consider

  • How does marriage change desire?
  • What does commitment mean?

Another view

Many married couples still desire each other deeply.

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