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What does it mean?
Love is defined by meeting the needs of the loved one selflessly.
In plain terms
Love shows itself when it helps the other person for their sake.
What can you take from it?
True love meets needs without expecting something in return.

Where it applies

  • caring for someone
  • expressing affection
  • evaluating love

Putting it to work

  • meet others needs
  • act selflessly

Questions to consider

  • How do you show love?
  • Is love selfless?

Another view

Meeting needs can sometimes enable dependency rather than love.

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