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What does it mean?
Hard work and strong family bonds can suppress unhappiness and amplify joy.
In plain terms
Busy work hides pain, while love and joy erase it temporarily.
What can you take from it?
Structure and love are effective coping mechanisms for life's struggles.

Where it applies

  • community building
  • family life
  • grief management

Putting it to work

  • maintain routines
  • prioritize loved ones

Questions to consider

  • Does busyness hide what you need to feel?
  • How does love heal grief?

Another view

Relying on work to suppress pain may prevent addressing root emotional issues.

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