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Maybe we're like the baboons. When we're stable and civilized, the women decide things, establish the households, the connections between them, create the neighborhoods and the friendships. But when we're nomadic, living lives on the edge of survival, men rule, and brook no interference from the women. Perhaps that's what civilization means - is the dominance of the female over the male/ and wherever that lapses, we call the result uncivilized, barbarian ... Manly.

Orson Scott Card#388

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About this quote

What does it mean?
The quote suggests civilization correlates with female domestic influence, while survival modes favor male dominance.
In plain terms
Women lead in stable societies, but men take over when survival is at risk.
What can you take from it?
Social structure shifts based on stability versus survival needs.

Where it applies

  • sociological debate
  • family dynamics
  • historical analysis

Putting it to work

  • analyze leadership roles
  • evaluate stability needs

Questions to consider

  • How does stability affect leadership?
  • Is gender tied to societal structure?

Another view

This generalization oversimplifies complex gender roles and cultural variations.

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