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What does it mean?
Thoughts aren't hidden intentionally; others just don't inquire.
In plain terms
I'm open; people don't ask what I think.
What can you take from it?
Openness depends on others asking.

Where it applies

  • deep conversations
  • team dynamics
  • close relationships

Putting it to work

  • active listening
  • asking open questions
  • inviting vulnerability

Questions to consider

  • Do you ask others enough?
  • Do you hide or just go unasked?

Another view

Some thoughts are meant to remain private regardless of questions.

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