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What does it mean?
Children are often viewed as means to parental ends rather than individuals.
In plain terms
Parents treat kids as tools for their own goals.
What can you take from it?
Respect children as individuals.

Where it applies

  • parent-child relations
  • family dynamics

Putting it to work

  • support independence
  • avoid manipulation

Questions to consider

  • What duties do parents owe?
  • Where does control end?

Another view

Parenting inherently involves guiding children.

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